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Five easy ways to work smarter not longer and stay ahead of the curve!

You don’t have to think big to be outfoxing. Even small changes can bring a slew of difference.

It’s been a year since wall-to-wall news around generative AI caught the winds and raked up imaginations extensively, picking up on ideas and opinions and offering startling solutions- all free and easy! What more with so much flustering doing the rounds, one thing’s absolutely clear. It’s here and not going to go anywhere anytime soon. Soon it will get fully integrated into productivity suites and solutions. That would mean a truly easy access to gen-AI in most places. Anywhere from composing e-mails, cleaning up code, brainstorming ideas to performing data analysis; it will have the clue and solution to everything of value.

So where’s all this going? What’s AI got to do with our way of doing things? I’d say not much right away but Chat GPT might pull the rug from beneath us sometime sooner for it’s got cutting edge tech in its arsenal and promises finer results.

Touché! Nah…not really. But ain’t all that soft power a bit off-the cuff? It’s breezy, folksy alright, but I guess it misses completely on the need to get the inside scoop and understand what you’re actually looking for. It’s revolutionary but with an air of indifference. Lack of academic integrity, limited knowledge, biased responses and inability to multitask… it sucks! Gen-AI or not; your Monday mornings still won’t bring you the first smile of the day. Everything will be thin as always and easily roll by.

Unless…

George Soros might have had the answer to this. He had figured it out helpfully; “The outcome of this book (’Soros on Soros’) is a summing up of my life’s work. . . As I finish the book, I feel I have succeeded.” Not much of a gen-AI here but who is better equipped to tell what he really thinks and how he thinks and translates everything into a remarkable personal success?

Fortunately, there are just as better ways to evolve and deliver on a better understanding of our future needs. Of course you’ll need to open-up to self-discovery and become a curious enthusiast who wouldn’t hesitate to meet a lot of quirky people and is always be looking for fixes to ‘Whys’.

These five ways might be the end of your comfort but at the end of the day I’m sure you will find your Wonderland!

Image source: ‘How to handle a toxic work environment’ in wemeancareer.com

Work out what you stink at

It sounds more of a bluff than some novel fresh career progression stuff, but it sways as you move ahead in your métier. It lets you find your weak points that need to be fixed and works best when you consider them as gaps in your skill set. What more it makes you stay on your toes all the times to keep tweaking your dexterity and clout.

See…it’s important to stay passionate about succeeding for you know that someone else knows better. Dump your shakiness, lest frailty swells to billboard size and crushes your chance of a win in your line of work!

Desires fire: Pick the right ones

You don’t want to turn into one of those dreadful swellheads; the kinds who love to be in control of the party. Nobody does. So, decide what’s important; would regulation jeans and white shirt work just fine for you or would you sulk over your clothes and be unpleasantly worried about your appearance. I for one never cared if my wardrobe was good enough to make me friends with vivacious hot finds. It didn’t matter. I chose to stay ahead in areas I thought I was passionate about. So I reached out and cherry-picked what I loved to do most.

From films and music to technology and food; your choice could make the difference. Follow it with respect and intensity and watch everything fall in place. And, don’t forget to share your eagerness to learn. Like-minds evolve easy and better. Besides, it’s more fun doing together than striking out on your own.

Find Filters: ‘cos they’re your best bet!

Look around and find people who are smarter than you in the swamps you wish to wade through. Filter info that flows your way while pulling together. Of course this would mean trusting somebody’s judgment you barely know. Yet be insightful, perceptive and awake; it’s highly likely that someday you may hit upon a brilliant idea or insight that has evaded you this far. Exciting as it is you will be shepherding your ideas to success once you climb down and relent to somebody wits.

Don’t believe in everything far and wide

The world generally lends more eyeballs to the bigger, better and bustling. But unimportant and inconsequential too sometimes have new funky and futuristic moments. A small book released quietly will easily hold its own against all those next-big-things unveiled at splashy champagne and celebrity dos. Then there’s a strange shaky contrast of feedbacks and reviews to cope with. Everybody’s ever rushing to make a brutal stab as a critic on the internet. Honestly nothing’s dependable 100 percent!

However so many things escape unsullied. With a positive spin invent your own inner assessment system. It will let you have a new way of looking at the world.

Image source: ‘5 best practices of performance analyzer in Power BI’ in journeyteam.com

Reinventing the wheel could be disastrous

So what if someone got there first? You can find a different way to discover. You’ll at least have the opportunity to flirt with information for a while! Interpret it in a way it hasn’t already been. Nothing is beyond the pale; connect the dots your way and someday you’ll hit the brilliance on speed dial. It doesn’t matter if you don’t know the answer to everything right now. Your context and perspective are enough to save you from the shrill din of ;“Shut up, you stupid!”

To keep your value and position intact be mindful that when you can do things that others can’t- like anything from optimizing content or coding for the web, you earn an undeniable advantage for yourself. Dredge up! Staying ahead has never been easy. But gradually you’ll learn to adapt and improve continually!

Still not with me!

Let Alice inspire you. If I may fill you in; not everything in ‘Alice’s Adventures in Wonderland’ was conjured from Lewis Carroll’s imagination. Stubborn, precocious and curious, she had to crawl down a rabbit hole, encounter obstacles and get lost again and again but didn’t she finally woke up armed with new experiences to navigate real life better?

Taking risks is scary but standing still is even more. You wouldn’t grow without challenging yourself. Use your weekends and aft-work hours to “do” something beyond drinking beer and dusting your house.

And come to think of it… most people who are at the top end of the curve sleep not more than 5 hours a day.

Image source: ‘Where did I go wrong? Why prospects respond negatively, and what to do about it.’ by Peter Bouvier in linkdin.com

After all life is no fun on the bleachers. You need to engage to be on the fast lane to success.

Aren’t you tired of wishing you had more? Be careful; there is little difference between your dreams and desires!

Like Drake, sometimes I wish if I could go back in times, not to change anything but to feel couple of things twice! I would want more of this dangerous, jazz-shaped immortality for myself!

Life sucks and it definitely is not a cakewalk. If it were, wouldn’t we all be rich, sipping a classic mimosa on our ocean front property? But even when it’s true that I don’t or ever will own a beach house, doesn’t mean that my some 50-ish years have been hard-only. Loads of little things have inundated my life- improving everyday of it without totally breaking the barriers. From miniature vacuums to bedside night lights to heated lunchboxes, shower liners with handy pockets, and even a shampoo brush to massage my scalp, these endless options haven’t failed me few clever moments of sweet happiness. But the phantom in me, pines for more. There’s this stain remover that works so well on red wine, that I forgot; I think I can hear it calling my name.

Let’s face it; Life isn’t easy and glee and all that; but you know what is?

It’s almost a year since I started to catalogue list of things that I wished I had lots of them in life. I called it ;“Things I wish I had more of them”. I initially came up with some boring things about life, career and relationships; things that I’d learned over the years and gathered from mentors, books, friends and people close to my heart. But later some better stuff filtered in; good choices like love, happiness, contentment trumped everything else.

I created it to remind myself of useful things that mattered; probably more so because it kept my hope alive to relive them someday.

A year later I still read it a few times each day and wait for crazy things to happen!!

What do I wish I haven’t had enough? What could I offer myself back again with what I have learned over the past years? Of course, this is an idea that people play around with in their minds; and quite often realize that an upbeat past has the genius to turn things around for some good in present as well. So, why not wish for it?

Unable to warp back in time? Fear not! You’re not scammed…

If you are someone like me, let me recommend a few out of my own list that I wish for more. It’s Ok if I couldn’t wake up to a wish fulfilled each morning. I know desires have a cranky way to keep you thinking for the rest of your life about an even stranger scenario; you returning back and reliving them.

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Wish I could do exciting things once again

Funnily; it’s not about success or even remotely about happiness! It’s about doing things that are exciting. In my declining year, I still want to be a 25yr old jaunty good looking beau, gleefully chasing some haute’ damsel from neighborhood. I want us to climb the trees, jump the wall and beat up all the bully boys when feeling pissed off! I want to live my share of one heartbreak, one true love, one success and one moment of despair again. I don’t want the creaking knees or cringing eyes falter me or the loosening skin shame me. I want to be reminded of all the battles that I survived and the ones that I won.

I want me to be excited. I want to be nubile and mercurial. I want to be foxy, short, sweet and crisp; all at the same time!

Could there be anything more desirable than this?

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Wish I had saved more

Like any young boisterous nerd, when young I was quite mindless about money. I did save and invested but I couldn’t manage to hoard it. Not that I was letting the thought pass by me but I had more exciting things crowding my days. I was getting carried away by the whims of the moment. A few simpler things could have made my present more bullish and upbeat. I could have done so much but didn’t pick up; I simply whizzed past in the fast lane!

See…when you are young you ride the wave of youth. You feel you’re gonna stay young forever. Behaving like a teenybopper I too was equally less impressive and less receptive or perhaps more distracted by less meaningful things! I thought the opportunity to save more will keep on endlessly coming and kept on spending the dime on utterly trivial things.

Why don’t we ever listen to a good advice when we are young? Somehow I feel though that I wouldn’t have listened even to my older 50-ish self then.

Today I wish I could travel back in time and save myself the pain, effort and trouble that I was going to earn for myself later.

If you’re in your mid-20’s and reading this, do yourself a favor;  don’t burns the candle at both ends; heed when some good advice heads your way.

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Wish I had worried less about changing jobs that I didn’t like!

This surely applies to everyone but is more prevalent when you’re a young rookie and Waterloo moment stares you in the face every day of your nine-to-five life. You’re easily intimidated and influenced by peer pressure, authority and roles models expecting you to behave or not behave in a certain way!

Many of my decisions including the one of staying stuck with one job-it hurt most; was influenced largely by the presumption of how it’d look like to others if I did jump the fence and whether everybody would approve of it.

Today, it all reeks of nonsense…

If I couldn’t get out of my fears or shake off influences then, did I miss something important? Have I lose out on living a happy authentic life? Hell no!… but I could have saved myself from endless hours in a dead-end job that failed my purpose and skills.

For the same reason, I admit that being present in the moment with unfulfilled desires is more difficult than when you are in your 20s. You just can’t fathom the value of being present at that age.

#I wish if I were more present then, so many things would have cut fine today!

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Wish I’d read Wayne Dyer earlier or perhaps get to watch Lady Gaga in concert

Years later, I could begin to understand the power of simple intentions only now. I wish I could size myself with Wayne Dyer…Umm! for no particular reason; but living a life of unlimited abundance and getting into your life the right people at the right time; Well…I’ll be damned if I couldn’t pick up the idea; something that I needed  so much when I was young. So much time, energy and money I wasted on things that only clutter and complicate our lives. I wish I had learned to co create my World my way when young.

Gee whiz!!…I could have done more with so much less.

Okay! Perhaps Wayne had not hit the stands then yet and I’m not sure about the latter; maybe she took to stage sometimes in late 1980s or what… I never got the opportunity to read him on the SoNet and neither could I get the chance to see her perform live.

Imagine my 20s!! I couldn’t fathom that they were going to change my life so much later on…

Amid all uncertainties, I wish I ought to have read all the enlightening things being taught in the books then or perhaps seen her perform on screen at least!

Today I watch Lady Gaga getting love from fans for sweet moments with Liza Minnelli at Oscars 2022 on flickering screens. I wish someday I’d get the opportunity to watch her perform live at Dolby’s.

But for now I guess, she‘ll have to stay in my list of should haves.’

Feature credits: ‘ Run!’ by Proper films in Youtube.com on Sep. 02, 2019.

Life is all about what’s happening in the present moment. While we wish, want and dream, our real lives are already happening. For me there has never been anything more terrifying than the prospect of dying out and missing out on all of it, because I have been way too busy wishing what more I wanted instead of appreciating what I have.

I wish…

Someday, if I could ever get to meet my younger self face-to-face, the first thing I’d want to say;Hey, stop worrying. It’s useless. Life will turn out just fine. But you can make it better by following your heart. And know what… everything you hope to feel when you get what you wish for, is with you right here, right now”

If you think that one day you might find yourself saying; “I wish, I had” then by all means do that thing right now! Hopefully you’ll never have to look back for things you wish you had accomplished more.

Trust me; it will pay off so long as you consider your wishes as no more than a little vacuum to clean up your everyday mess!!