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Smile! don’t let yourself be billed a ‘Waster’ anymore; A ‘tomato timer’ could save your back and brain!

25:00: time to focus! 24:53: short break for reset; enable notification alerts;

You may ‘Start’ now…

20:15: it’s time for a longer break;

Stop kicking the can down the road and find ways to be gainful. You might just get away from being looked upon as a messy, couch potato creep who’s crawling lazy and always falls behind others! Here’s how…

As the clock strikes midnight, your run-up for the day begins. It will keep ticking for another 86400 times before packing for the day to pick-up a new one!  Aren’t you tardy and a little behind time? You’ve already splurged close to 25000 secs lying fast asleep in bed. There’s so much to do and not enough time to finish.

Now, you’re all worked up and worry if you could somehow find help to wrap up the stint you’ve been working on; study, writing, or coding- it feels like you’re living on borrowed time.I thought I’d finish work in time. That might have helpedbut “!

Nothing to get peevish over except that you’ll stand guilty as charged of procrastinating and hamming it up. Your claim that you could easily finish the task will be sounded out as utterly unreal and way off being realistic. As if that isn’t enough, you’ll be flagged as a reckless destructive crass who always falls short in managing his time. And all the while you’ve been thinking you’ve done enough to fix that damn fritteringsyndrome and dealt with your jinx!  Still you keep crashing out miserably each time you stretch out.

It’s gross and exasperating!

Still I think it’s Ok to fail trying than to die away doing nothing. And I guess… trying yet one more time doesn’t hurt anybody.

It’s intriguing in content…I mean this issue of prioritization and productivity. So I decided to dig back into the history a little. A fascinating ‘inverting time’ concept where time changes from a negative something; apparently lost— to a possible positive representation of an event, caught my attention and I travelled back to a 130 page revelation aboutWorking smarter, not harder’ by Francesco Cirillo who like most of us was a complete spoilsport when it came to studies and completing assignments. He knew little of little of anything let alone find a way to manage time. So when the idea of using of a kitchen timer shaped like a tomato (pomodoro in Italian)- that so nonchalantly hit him one day while prepping meal in galley-it was more accidental than a serious shot at innovating something. But what followed next was to change his life and of countless others forever!

It all started as a feather-brained hack where he’d set a two-minute timer and challenge himself to stay focused for that duration. Curiously this was set to be later used to channel time and train the brain to stay focused by chipping off some extra length of time that’s otherwise taken to stay tuned. It didn’t end here; short breaks meant to switch off after-efforts, gave him precious minutes to realign and adjust if things didn’t go well in the first instance!

Cirillo had then moved on to five… 10 and later 25 minutes followed by a five-minute break; which he thought was fair enough optimal time interval. This meant that ‘anything less than this was too short a time to get anything done, while an hour-long was way too long’.

And this is when the ‘tomato timer’ birthed.

Gif source: ‘Tips and tricks. Unofficial guides and fixes. User edition.’ in forum.zidoo.tv

This is something that you too can do to wriggle out of your daily struggle to be productive. Jeez…haven’t you had enough off being badly road-rolled and knocked around with a ton of tasks to finish and do not know how to complete them?  As a matter of fact you run a serious risk of an early burn-out and a steep backslide. So, try your hand on this fancy hourglass for some dramatic results. Doing so would eliminate procrastination from your life and ensure that you stay focused on one task at a time allowing you to work in short bursts of time with short breaks in between.

Pen a draft, knock out a proposal, complete a graphic design project, or dash-off a complex code; breaking your work into 25-minute chunks is hugely beneficial and the pause in between would let you review the progress you’ve made so far with fresh eyes to make adjustments where necessary.

What’s even better is how easy it is to begin! Simply find a timer (the one on your phone will work fine), and get going. If you’re looking for something more legit, explore the likes of Focus booster, Pomello, Toggl, Clockwork Tomato, Focus to-do. Using a Pomodoro tracker feels edgy at first but after several days your variables will make you wonder why you didn’t pick it up earlier; you may have saved yourself a lot of troubles!  Getting something done on time and ticking it off your to-do list can be extremely satisfying.

On the other hand little distractions have the distinction of derailing whole work day in a flash. This would have lots of open ended work left unfinished and would seemingly drag on endlessly. But if you’re keen to work past the point of optimal order and timing, you’d better build up an appetite for ‘tomatoes’. Like so, it would save the day for you and set plans for you with gamified objectives and gumptious ends!

Begin by breaking down complex projects in smaller actionable steps. Stay close to this rule and some clear progress is sure to happen since small tasks go together to a bigger end. So combine simpler ones together and ace it. But before that ….

Image source: ‘Why do I procrastinate?’ by Nancy in sweet planit.com

Set the timer to ring at all times since pomodoro’ is an indivisible unit of time and cannot be broken; certainly not for checking incoming mails, team chats or text messaging.  In the moment, it might seem easy for you to justify these internal pulls; “This email is too important to wait,” or “It’ll take only less than a minute to check my Twitter; that not a real distraction…Ok!”

Of course, anything that comes up in between needs to be returned to later. A digital to-do-list to keep track is fine but a pen and paper will do as well. Perish the thought but these small interruptions would lie low and be messy later! You have to take note of them.

But it’s not just the time lost; it’s also the time and energy you’ll need before your lost attention settles down and goes live again. After switching gears, our minds stay absorbed with the previous calling for well over 20 minutes before it gathers wits fully. Indulging the impulse to check Face book even for a minute is like blowing away some 20 minutes of trying before you could get back on rails.

Make it a 5 minute break if the disruption is imminent; keep track of the time lost and reflect how best to avoid them next time. See… each break is a chance to reset and bring your attention back to what you should be working on. It makes you become more aware of where and how you’re spending your time.

Nevertheless, if you get to finish before the timer goes off, reach out for some over learning or spend this extra time reading up on professional knowledge to improve on your skill set.

Image source: ‘6 ways to improve work-life balance when working remotely’ in calmsage.com

Guess what…at the end of the day you’ll be too ready to believe that good things do happen to you too and how much you can get done in a day!

All you need to do is …jumpstart your day by thinking in ‘tomatoes’ rather than hours!

Don’t let yourself be robbed of happiness when you’re sad and down in the dumps!

Life is chaotic and sometimes awful things happen out of blue. And when that occurs, it feels like we’ve been thrown for a loop. Pushing to edge, it infects all our waking hours with endless worries and mellows our happiness.

Image source: ‘7 Steps to Embracing Mind-Body Wholeness in the New Year’ by Deepak Chopra in chopra.com on Dec.19,2018.

Yet, instinctively we keep driving through, often surviving on adrenaline. We over schedule ourselves; we drink umpteen cups of coffee; we respond to one more e-mail; we stay amped all day believing that we’ll eventually be able to set things straight and done. And in the way, we let ourselves burn recklessly.

It’s rude and shocking…for all that burning doesn’t do any good. Except that it overwhelms us and drowns all our happiness amidst the entire struggle. Misplaced trust, broken promises, blatant lies; just about everything stokes our sufferings.

Looking forward!

In this frantic world, happiness is like a friend you rarely have the chance to catch up with. But finding a moment of reassurance is never impossible. You may presume that you can find happiness when you’re finally completely free of troubles; but that’s not how it works.

In fact it runs the other way around and isn’t as challenging as it seems.

Terrible things do happen to each one us at some point in life. When you are caught in the thick of things-whether it’s about a snappy senior or a brassy relative who don’t believe in boundaries or yet another viral video of a violent racist incident you’re left stranded with mounting fears and have no clue how to handle it.  Worse, rather than hoping for a better end, you come up with a snappy retort and a quick fix to quell your unease.

But would an irrational assumption and aggression be of any good? Like climate change wouldn’t that mean hurtling down a worm hole of offensive ends and no-win arguments?

So, if you feel you have no space for peace left with you, are terribly hurt or perhaps angry and looking for a smarter way-a calmer way to bring to you greater attention and ingenuity without shedding one bit of happiness…these three simple ways might just let you find your Zen in a world that seems anything but peaceful.

Image source: ‘Seven ways to rest’ by Sherryl Garratt in the creativelife.net on Dec.06, 2021.

Forgiveness is good

Feeling hurt, even angry is a forgivable response when you are wronged or treated unfairly. But holding on to slights doesn’t help in reclaiming happiness. They take up so much of your emotional energy and push your emotional wellness to the wall.

Forgiveness on the other hand, isn’t something that helps the person alone you forgive. It does even more for you in the end. Of course, it’s a long demanding emotion and goes beyond a simple, “I forgive you”. Worse, sans compassion, it misses acceptance and would leave you mired in self blame and regret.

Regretting and trying to clean up the wrong on the other hand, is one good amend to begin with. Over the time, real good changes will happen to your behavior and I’m sure you won’t have to lie to your worrisome waking hours any more.

Find time for yourself

I find loneliness a mere normal state of mind that builds around relationships but desperately yens for sociability when abandoned.

While spending just the right amount of time with yourself is good for your emotional well being, excess of solitude can badly hurt your happiness over the time. Let it turn intense and it will become all consuming and wreck your everyday life. Your creative side will erode; you won’t be able to re-evaluate your boundaries and above all you wouldn’t be able to connect with your needs.

When something terrible happens and stress overwhelms, we speculate about what wrong we’ve done to cause bad luck. “I must have been wrong in standing up to myself. I created this mess for someone else and now it has double backed to me.” It’s natural for you to think and regress then.

Correct this distortion if that’s what is hurting you. Don’t wait to use your supports. They might help you see the problem differently, but deserting your nemesis and rebooting your mind to do away with ill thoughts is your personal need.

Catch them young and you could reclaim your happiness even while busy in your daily grind.

Get back to nature

Don’t we all head back to the trees (or the seas) when stress goes for a spin and begin to take its toll? Doesn’t the feel of the breeze, the smell of the grass, the sound of water running, feel at home in the outdoors?

Setting better boundaries starts here!…

Getting back to nature is one step to ease your emotional distress. It’s amazing how you could find great friends in elements around you whenever disquiet turns exhausting. As extravagant or as simple as you want it to be, there is no need for a footslog far away to some mountain top. Start with few smaller hauls and as you get closer and closer to nature, you’ll find you’re rid of your excessive worries and your innate self is back in gear. You’re no longer bedeviled! Trust me, your best bet to escape from 100 or 1000 worries lies right beyond your garden fence.

And don’t forget to leave your phone at home. A constant stream of notifications and e-mails or the urge to refresh your social media frequently can quickly chip away at your newly found zing!

Image source: pexels.com.

Most meltdowns, I think are rarely catastrophic. They are fixable and never meant to be a 24/7 experience. Yet being constantly surrounded by them feels more like being hunted in a savanna by some wild animal where your stress response is all spooked up to save your life. Your attention is mobilized and riveted, your muscles are strained for a quick sprint and your immune system is racy enough to get you quickly out of danger.

This edginess though is usually short lived. In fact you’re stressed in real sense only for five minutes….more like before you die! But even in those few anxious moments it burns into your body, slams your emotional well being and crashes your decision making. It is then that you get tightly wound up and are more likely to react harshly than to respond with reason.

No matter what you choose to purge your guilt or how you decide to go about it, repossessing happiness never happens overnight. It’s only your patience that would make all the difference between a beaten sod and a wishful Pollyanna.

Your takeaway!…

Next whenever you hit a bad trip and are clueless about how to cope with it, find a ray of hope in my playbook; without pre judging anything try your hand for once… something might just work right for you!