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Life Is A Bicycle Ride Where Balance Comes From Progress Not Perfection!

Einstein’s words weigh heavy and ring a bit differently for me. Ever since I’ve come across his legendary quote, Life is like riding a bicycle. To keep your balance, you must keep moving”, I’ve begun to view setbacks as opportunities to learn and grow, rather than reasons to give up. Original words are a little different in ways but the message echoes the same. One of the most shared pieces of advice online- that has umpteen times turned up on posters, classroom walls, and social feeds, the message here is unmistakable; Don’t try to stand on the pedal of life and balance without moving forward. Balance is achieved only by evolving, adapting and thriving. If you let up, stagnation will end you in discomfort, fear and imbalance. Movement alone will bring clarity and confidence”.

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“I’ve always done it that way” is one quote that makes my blood pressure rise uncontrollably. I’m not against traditions; in fact I love quite a few of them. I also understand that traditions change, evolve and sometimes even fade away. But generally people seem to miss the most important truth. Life isn’t about standing still or resisting change. It’s about evaluating the events in our lives and purposefully choosing how to respond. There are times we prefer to cling to the past practices only to miss; there are times when we pass them over and yet improve and grow.

I understand that nothing encourages persistence over perfection more than my resolve to evolve. It reassures that my progress does not need to be dramatic. Even slow, steady movement is enough to maintain balance and direction.

Einstein’s wisdom- words that won’t sit still- fit seamlessly in today’s life, making it relevant and includes all age groups and careers.

Are You Moving Forward?

When riding a bike, if you stay in one place without moving, then obviously you’ll just fall over and maybe even hurt yourself. Won’t you? If you want to balance yourself on a bike more easily then you have to move forward.

Likewise life also needs to keep turning page. If you want to have a balanced one and stay ahead, then it must make an effort to keep moving forward to stay upright and not fall down.

Imagine it like this; you‘re working in a Corporate giant and looking for a significant career change-like you want to transition from one gig to another. You have been working in this stable but unfulfilling job for years and one fine day you decide to break free and pursue an altogether  new career path; the one that asks more of you -additional skill and learning but appears like ‘the holy grail to you . This transition is fraught with snags and at some point you are tempted to give up or go back to the old comfortable cushy job.

This is when you need to remind yourself that to successfully navigate the career change you have to keep moving forward. This essentially means reaching out to newer skills, creating networking with pros and wizards in the new domain and actively searching for opportunities despite setbacks. Killing time contemplating, weighing your options or reviewing the challenges could result in losing momentum and potentially abandoning the goal.

Challenges are inevitable, but perseverance and unwavering approach would help overcome them and in the end lead to success. Just as a bicycle needs continuous motion to stay upright, pursuing a new career demands sustained effort and adaptability.

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 Find the Equilibrium and Create a New Story

Swamped, overextended, buried! Why does the modern day life feel so overwhelming? Fast. Loud. Constantly pulling at our attention! Is it just a feeling or is it a plethora of demands- of work, family and personal goals that stretches us thin and stresses us out completely. My guess is that it’s easy to feel overwhelmed by the sheer amount of constant rush and our inability to deal with it.

In a fast-paced world, fooling around and trying to catch up with an ever intimidating life sometimes gets consuming. From career demands to personal relationships and self-care, finding balance definitely becomes an elusive task.

However, just as a skilled cyclist maintains equilibrium, it’s best to prioritize and manage responsibilities effectively. Balancing work, family, and leisure time will ensure that no single walk of life dominates. This makes sure that you will move towards a more harmonious existence.

Embrace Change and Enwrap Adaptability

Life is in a constant flux and relentlessly changing, much like a bicycle ride in a perpetually changing landscape. To maintain balance, the willingness to adapt to new circumstances and embrace change is the foremost requirement. Resisting it leads to a stagnation that hinders personal development and restricts potential.

This is where a positive mindset comes handy. It starts to act as a reliable compass, guiding towards balance and contentment. Just as a cyclist’s confidence affects their performance, our thoughts shape our reality. By encouraging optimism and gratitude, you may navigate through life’s challenges with a greater sense of equanimity and happiness.

Einstein’s analogy comparing life to riding a bicycle reminds us that maintaining balance is not an inherent gift but a continuous effort requiring movement, adaptability, and perseverance.

This bicycle metaphor is powerful because it’s relatable. Anyone who knows how to ride a bicycle knows that stopping completely means an imminent fall. Likewise in life fear of failure can hold people back.

It silly but seems like I’ve turned guilty of popularizing an already celebrated quote. One thing though has stayed with me inseparably; in moments of doubt or hesitation nothing works better than a positive mindset. And it’s the movement not stillness that beckons positive consequences.

Today I remember and deal life like a casual bike cruise and strive to keep my wheels in motion. The next step happens desired but unasked. I get to appreciate the true essence of balance and fulfillment.

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Now that I think about it… it all had struck my mind while I was riding my bicycle down a dirt road one summer evening last year. Strangely I had bumped into these queer but extraordinarily remarkable reflections which otherwise I would have never had the chance to feel out. On any other day I’d have dismissed them as mere memory hack; momentary distraction perhaps but what followed next was fated to change the ways I look at my life. I felt obliged to move ahead with time.

Guess I’ve become more pensive thereafter than I’d imagined I’d ever be!

Don’t quit on your dreams! At Times life moves from zero to hundred pretty quick.

The mind-bending weirdness of number‘zero’ is best described as the absence of something is a thing, in and of itself”.

Unbelievably the laptop, Mac, microcomputer or any other device you’re reading this on right now runs on a binary. A string of zeros and ones! Without zero there is no calculus, no automation and no electronics. In fact sans zero much of the world around us would literally go belly-up.

Zero’s discovery is considered equivalent to us learning an Alien’ or fictional language. During the night when we look up into the sky we see nothing but ‘oblivion’. From this nihility or zero, a scattering shower of electromagnetic radiation flows down to us right from the deep space. In the darkest emptiness I’d say there is always something unspoiled and yet to be mapped out!

A true zero I think is perhaps the first hint of an absolute nothingness.

For most part people usually do not understand any of this. Zero is not innate to us. We invented it and quite wittingly have kept passing it on to the next generation. Above and beyond this incredible breakthrough, there’s something that’d surprise you more. Would you believe that even tiny bee brains can compute zero? Only humans though were capable of seizing zero’s worth and forge it into an impeccable tool for all time.

Just to tickle your fancy, if bumblebees can distinguish between ‘greater than and lesser thanquantities including zero, it should be enough to float your boat as well. You have the capabilities to cut the mustard and thrive. But nothing’s more fascinating than the fact that zero’ has amazing the ability to spring surprises. It does so quite quickly when it comes to our choices and decisions affecting our lives.

Here’s how;

The ‘zero effect’: The strength of preference matters.

Like all of you, I also have had my share of problems and difficulties. I had always experienced relentless work-related stress till it was time to quit. I tried meditation to start with – something that I had never thought about before. Maybe I didn’t feel the need or was not motivated enough to do it. I had though read books, blogs, and video shorts on techniques involved there. I was aware of the practice all the time but didn’t know when to do it. Work, personal projects, deadlines, and personal life- everything was taking its toll and weighed heavy. Yep! Grudgingly I had bowed myself to the misery of daily grind.

Working through late nights I had compromised my morning routine. I was practically pushing myself from early hours till late evening. Rushed brunches and bites would hastily find some space in between; no exercises of course! Even so, I felt stranded. I consoled myself that I will be more productive if I focused on my work more. I believed that things would turn for the better if I sacrificed my freedom a wee bit more.

Still…It simply wouldn’t work for me!

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I was getting tired easily. I couldn’t focus and had barely any space for relaxation. Sometimes I couldn’t sleep and would keep thinking the whole night.

What’s wrong with me? Why am I failing? Why couldn’t I do well and earn the wings? Why am I not living a full life? How will I satisfy myself?

My brain wouldn’t quit buzzing the whole night until it would just go blank in the wee hours. I would sleep uneasy for couple of hours thereafter and wake up heavy headed and sluggish.

Then one fine morning something extraordinary happened;

It was 5:30 am of a wintry morning. Darkness was fading and the light was taking over. ‘Enough is enough’; I told myself.I’d have to own everything, take responsibility and be answerable to none else but me”. I went for a jog, came back after 45 mins, took shower and got dressed. Then I sat down in a corner of my house in total silence. I closed my eyes and began to focus on my breath. I tried to trace back the origin of every thought. I wanted to find out why I was thinking the way I was. I will hear my mind spelling out every thought loud and clear- over and over again. I saw what an utter chaos it was. Was I was worried about every damn thing in the world? Isn’t there more to live for than drinks and nibbles? It was like I was in the middle of a battleground.

Distraught I opened my eyes…it was only for 5 minutes but weighed heavy like an hour. I felt good though. I guess I had taken the first step.

 It’s been 8 years since. I dare say that meditation didn’t solve any of my problems either then or later. In fact it felt irrelevant to anything I was experiencing. It would though help me to calm down and start afresh to think from quite a few perspectives.

Today, I’m having better sleep and focus my energy on things that matter most. The morning routine fares well and helps me aplenty. At 5 in the morning I wouldn’t find anybody on the roads. I feel free; I feel ahead. When I come back, I take a lazy shower. I ruminate a little over a cup of tea. Later, I stuff myself with a sumptuous breakfast. Then I sit quietly in the backyard and I feel I’ve conquered the world. I’m all pumped up now to butt my head into every challenge that comes my way during the day. I’m relentless to finish whatever I decide to do.

What more is there to ask for?

By mid-day when I think I’ve had enough, I would sit back and take a breather.

It is then I feel like a winner. I feel unstoppable!

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You can add zero to any number to your successes

Sometimes we can’t get what we need. It‘s very disturbing when things don’t turn out well for us. Something we’ve been so certain of can fall flat very quickly and leave us wounded in the heart.

When in turmoil self-doubt takes over. Instinctively heart searching steps in; ‘Is that it? Have I had enough?’

To take charge of yourself quit worrying about every detail that torments you in your hard moments. Stop pushing yourself to the limit. It’s quite difficult to escape thoughts though. They keep us returning to the equivalent of whys” and “whats” over and over again.

Start with a simple No’ to any gloom around you if you want to defeat a terrible time. Prep yourself to deal with anything that life tosses at you and endure any success in your stride. By outsmarting the circumstances you’ll start to see everything from an alternate perspective and move ahead. So patch yourself …you’re amazing and life will go in the manner you’ve arranged it to.

Once you’ve arrived this far, stop briefly to adjust and manage your current moment. Your stunners from yesterday do not characterize you. You need to know where you’re coming from. Your incidents are only a faint impression of the life you’ve led so far. You’ve the ability to improve them.  Stressing over a little now will not hurt you and even save you from more heart breaks and backslides. 

Move the world on your fingertips: Why zero is so damn useful!

If you were to make choices that will affect your future, quit agonizing over every other thing . Steal the spotlight for yourself. Record it and play it over and over. You’ll gain from each slip-up or circumstance you’ve lived. What’s intense for now will make you resilient and strong enough to continue developing and face the unknown stoutly.

It will be easier to move ahead then. Soon it will be plain sailing all the way.

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Honestly not everything occurs for an explanation; every ‘put-off’ is meant to end with a more meaningfularrangement. Moving away from being nearly non-existent to being very obvious, you tend to own endless quantities of get-up’ and ‘go’.

I suppose not many would know exactly how good or bad the zero value is. Few will prefer not to react strongly to the choice with zero compared to a near-zero value.  But you can bet your bottom dollar on this. For a number representing nothing, zero surprisingly has a priceless importance in our lives. Without context, it’s of little interest or concern. But given the time, as a cathartic outcome of a decision;

It knows how to knock your socks off!